Decision Coaching

Stuck between
two good options?

decide, then take the first step

You have thought about it from every angle. You have made the pro and con list. You have asked everyone you trust. You are still stuck. Decision coaching gives you a structured way to see the choice clearly, make it, and take the first step.

Lauren Fine, MD: Decision Coaching

"Most accomplished people
don't need more information.
They need permission."

Lauren Fine, MD · ICF-Track Coach · TEDx Speaker

Why decisions get stuck

More information
rarely helps.

Most people who are stuck already know the facts. What they are missing is a way to weigh them. Fear, other people's expectations and old rules all get mixed in with what you actually want. My job is to help you separate them.

What Most People Try
What a Good Decision Takes
Another pro and con list
Weighing what matters to you
Polling everyone you know
One honest thinking partner
Waiting until you feel sure
Deciding with enough clarity
All or nothing
A small, recoverable first step
Second-guessing after
A decision you can stand behind

How a decision session works

Four questions
for any decision

Most decisions get stuck because we try to answer every question at once. We take them one at a time. A single decision can often be worked through in one or two sessions.

01

Values

Which option fits what matters most to you now? Not ten years ago. Not what matters to the people around you. We name your values and score each option against them.

What matters now Your definition Not inherited

02

Feasibility

What would each option actually take? Money, time, family, logistics. We separate the real constraints from the ones you assumed and never checked.

Real constraints Checked assumptions The math

03

Identity

Which option fits who you are becoming? Some choices look right on paper and still feel wrong. That feeling is information, and we look at it directly.

Who you are now Who you are becoming Gut check

04

Regret

Ten days, ten months, ten years. Which choice will you wish you had made? Then we pick one small, recoverable step to test it before you commit.

10/10/10 Small bets First step

Decisions I help with

Every kind of
crossroads

Each of these is its own kind of decision. The method is the same. Choose the one that sounds most like where you are.

01

Stay or Go

Whether to leave a job, a practice or a role, or redesign it and stay.

Should I quit Stay with intention

02

The Promotion Question

Whether to say yes to the new role, the leadership job or the bigger title.

Should I take it The cost of yes

03

Career Reinvention

What comes next when the path you built no longer fits.

Midlife change Next chapter

04

Going Part Time or Pulling Back

Cutting hours, stepping down from a role or changing how much you work.

Fewer hours Stepping back

05

The Side Build

Whether to start something on the side, keep it small or go all in.

Side business Testing an idea

06

Too Many Yeses

Deciding what to drop when everything feels like it matters.

Saying no Boundaries

07

Making Room for Family

Caregiving, kids, a move, and the work changes they force.

Family first Making room

08

The Next Chapter

Empty nest, a milestone birthday or semi-retirement.

Milestones What now

09

Leaving Clinical Medicine

The physician version of stay or go, including the paths that do not require leaving.

Physicians Non-clinical careers

10

Coach, Therapist or Both?

Not sure what kind of help you need. Start here.

Right support Where to start

Is this for you

You might be in the right place if...

A note

One decision
at a time.

You do not need a long engagement to make one good decision. Bring the question you are stuck on. We will work through it together, and you will leave with a next step.

Book a Free Coaching Session, No Sales Pitch

Want to try it on your own first? Download the free Pivot Decision Framework.

Common questions

What people ask
about decision coaching

What is decision coaching?

Decision coaching helps you work through one specific decision in a structured way. We clarify what matters to you, check the real constraints, look at how each option fits who you are, and choose a small first step.

What kinds of decisions do you help with?

Career decisions like whether to stay or leave, take a promotion or go part time. Life decisions like making room for family, starting something on the side or what comes after a milestone. If it is keeping you up at night, it counts.

How many sessions does it take?

A single decision can often be worked through in one or two sessions. Bigger decisions, like a career change, usually take longer. We decide together what makes sense after the first free session.

Will you tell me what to do?

No. You know your life better than anyone. My job is to help you see the decision clearly enough to make it yourself, and to make sure the choice is really yours.

What if I make the wrong choice?

Most decisions are more reversible than they feel. We look for a small, recoverable first step, so you can test a choice before you commit to all of it.

Is the first session really free?

Yes. The first session is free and there is no sales pitch. Tell me what you are deciding. I will tell you honestly whether coaching makes sense.

Ready to start

Let's have a conversation.

No pressure. Just a conversation.

The first session is free and there's no obligation. Tell me where you are. I'll tell you honestly if coaching makes sense and if we're a good fit.

Speaking and workshop inquiries welcome. Contact for rates.

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Related reading

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Physician weighing your options? Read the guide to non-clinical careers for physicians, including the paths that do not require leaving clinical work.